Bluetooth problems, please help?

I'll start from scratch. First, put both phones in "Discoverable" mode. Second, go to your Bluetooth menu in the V3X and select "Add new device". Then, when his device comes up, select it. Both of you agree on a pword, and put it in. Once the connection is established, go to your file management screen. Select the ringtone, hit Options and select "Send:" and select "Bluetooth". Select your friend's phone and hit Send. Optionally, if you don't have the ability to send on that, have him do almost the same thing, but select "Recieve via Bluetooth", and see if you can select the file from there.